《我们的生活》前情提要 Previously on This Is Us...
我刚收到领养机构的六条消息 I just got six messages from the adoption agency.
我们匹配到了 We have a match.
我允许你收回那句"甜心先生在搬家货车旁" I free you from your "Jerry Maguire at the U-Haul,"
顺势而为的求婚宣言 what-if marriage proposal that you made.
不 我不打算收回那句求婚 Yeah, I don't think I'm gonna take it back.
你的生活其实是被你的母亲们决定的 Your life has really been defined by your mothers.
威廉把他知道的一切都告诉我了 William told me everything he knew about my birth mother.
我已经无法了解她更多 I'll never know much about her.
有些事情 利医生 There are things, Dr. Leigh,
我感觉不太方便跟你聊 that I don't feel comfortable talking to you about.
我想试试不同的方法 I'm gonna make a change, and...
找一位黑人治疗师 find a Black therapist.
鱼会睡觉吗
会 但跟你睡觉不一样 它们是休息
我想让它们别休息了 我好饿
醒醒
耐心点
深呼吸 乖孙女
钓到了 钓到了
慢慢拉回来
这条鱼还挺沉
《我们的生活》 第五季第三集
重了三磅 Three pounds heavier.
你听到了吗 孩子 Hey, hey, you hear that, kid?
比去年增重了三磅 Three pounds heavier than last year.
他现在还在30%这层 He's still only in the 30th percentile.
这话什么意思 What's that supposed to mean?
意思就是 你离平均水平还有一段距离 It means you've got a long way to go to be average.
兰德尔 你就不能表示一下支持吗 Randall, just try to be supportive, okay?
你哥今年要打橄榄球 Your brother's playing football this year.
他得多增点重 He's gonna need the extra weight.
小凯要竞争四分卫的位置 Kev's going out for quarterback.
你们两个确实到了 Well, you boys are definitely at the age
身体开始发生变化的年纪 where your bodies will start changing.
《身体的变化》
身体加速成长 肌肉增加 长胡子 Growth spurts. Added muscle. Facial hair.
性发育 性感觉 心理变化
我去 医生 你就不能放点 Geez, Doc, would it kill you
《消费者报告》之类的东西吗 to have a Consumer Reports lying around?
他们怎么这么慢 What is taking them so long?
斯图尔特和汤雅一小时后就要来家里了 Stewart and Tonya will be at the house in an hour.
斯图尔特 你们分手之后 Stewart? I thought you weren't talking to Stewart
不是不说话了吗 after the big breakup.
他选择加入我的学习小组 He chose to be in my group project.
他选了你啊 He chose you.
有意思 Interesting.
怎么没有糖了 What happened to the candies?
怎么 你六岁吗 呆子 What are you, six years old, nerd?
可我身板不像个六岁的蠢货 At least I'm not built like a six-year-old dumbass.
可你们的言行举止都跟六岁小屁孩一样 No, you guys just act like a bunch of six-year-olds.
爸你看他们 Dad!
-行了 都消停点 -快去车里吧 - Guys. Both of you. - Come on, let's go to the car.
副驾归我 Shotgun!
谢谢 Thanks.
我很少接待同时照顾着 Not often do I send parents off with three teens
三个一样大且都处于青春期小孩的父母 the exact same age going through puberty at the exact same time.
我不信教 但我会为你们祈祷 I'm not a religious man, but I'll pray for you.
祝你们好运 Good luck.
是啊 Yeah.
我不认为自己是个独自工作的心理咨询师 I don't think of myself as a therapist who works alone,
我认为这是一种 合作 I think of this as a... collaboration,
就像两位作曲家 like two songwriters.
我们一起找到昂扬的旋律 We will find your positive rhythms
同时尽量减少沉郁的鼓点 while minimizing any negative beats.
你懂我意思吗 Feel what I'm saying?
好 Okay.
我倡导CBT和CPT I'm a proponent of CBT and CPT.
CBT是认知行为疗法 CBT is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy,
CPT是认知过程疗法 and CPT is Cognitive Processing Therapy.
抱歉 你是卡了吗 I'm sorry, are you frozen?
没 我没卡 No. No, I am not.
因此 这件事不仅在我 That said, this isn't about me.
你也需要付出努力 You're gonna have to put in the work.
我只是来帮助你 I'm just here to help you find
更深刻地理解自己 a deeper understanding of yourself
以及周围你爱的人 and the loved ones around you.
真是对不起 I... am so sorry.
我老婆有事出去了 My wife had to run out.
这就是在家办公的坏处 是吧 Downside of working from home, right?
没事的 我能理解 That's okay, man. Go ahead.
打个招呼吧 Can you say hi?
我有三个女儿 I got three of those.
这是我女儿 艾普尔 This is my daughter, April.
艾普尔 这是... 我不能说他的名字 April, this is-- I can't tell you his name
因为医患保密协定 because of doctor-patient privilege.
不好意思 Excuse me.
是"可能的患者" Potential patient.
不是我自卖自夸 I don't mean to toot my own horn,
但我这次的煎饼真的用心了 but I put my foot up in these pancakes.
谁要来点 Who wants some?
-我想要 -好呀 - Please. - Oh, yes.
谢谢妈妈 Thanks, Mom.
-这煎饼我真的用心了... -听到了 - Put my foot in these pancakes... - We heard.
我吃麦片就好 Yeah, I'm good with cereal.
好吧 那你们快点吃 All right, well, y'all eat up, then.
待会上网课不要迟到了 知道吗 I don't want you late for online school, okay?
不然显得没规矩 That's just a bad look.
都是我一点点做的 Made 'em from scratch.
做这些煎饼的时候 Yeah, a lot of love went into them
-倾注了许多爱意 -天啊 我吃还不行 - is all I'm saying. - Oh, my God. Fine.
好吧 Okay.
-早 -早上好 爸 - Morning. - Morning, Dad.
你们还好吗 How is everybody?
她们今早的青春期叛逆有点剧烈 There's a lot of teen attitude this morning.
前一天你是众星捧月 Yeah, one day you hung the moon,
第二天你就是饥荒 战争和瘟疫 the next you're famine, war and pestilence.
对了 Hey...
我觉得我找到合适的人 I think I found my guy,
-来代替利医生了 -那太好了 - to replace Dr. Leigh. - Oh, wow. That's great.
那你谈家里的事了吗 还是 So, did you talk about family stuff, or...?
就大概聊了一下 Just generally.
我们 我们谈了跨种族身份 We...we talked about transracial identity.
今天我跟他约了一个长一点的视频会 I'm having a longer Zoom session with him today.
不过他满足了我所有要求 贝丝 But, uh, he checks all the boxes, Beth.
他很酷 聪明 有趣 He's cool, smart, funny,
是黑人 还是个年轻的父亲 Black, a young father.
我们有很多共同点 We got a lot in common.
-年轻的父亲 -说话小心点哦 - Young father? - Hey, watch your mouth now.
你都没怎么吃煎饼 Hey. You barely touched the pancakes.
你不用放养的鸡蛋 You refuse to use cage-free eggs.
-苔丝 你得吃东西 -我喝了酸奶 饱了 - Tess, you need to eat. - I had some yogurt. I'm good.
这孩子一天能折磨死我好几次 That girl is killing me three times a day.
妈呀 贝丝 你这些煎饼真是用心了 Damn, Beth, you put your foot up in these pancakes.
感谢上苍把你赐给我 亲爱的 Thank God for you, baby.
感谢上苍把你赐给我才是 Thank God for you.
感谢上苍赐给我这些煎饼 Thank God for these pancakes.
天啊 你现在一天健身几次 Geez, how many workouts are you up to a day now?
两次 可能两次半吧 怎么了 Two. Maybe two and a half. Why?
-好奇 我在了解你 -好 - Curious. Me learning about you. - yes.
最近我感觉我锻炼的时间里 You know, I feel like lately the half sessions are just me
有一半都拿来纠结跟我弟的破事了 burning through crap I got going on with my brother, you know?
我不确定你是因为这个才练出那些肌肉的 Not sure those are the muscles you work on for that,
不过我也不是行家 but I am not a professional.
那些东西是谁买的 Who brought those?
是你妈和米格尔送的气球 Those are balloons from your mom and Miguel.
我以为你跟他们说了我们不走订婚那些形式 I thought you told 'em we're not doing engaged engaged.
我是说了 我全都告诉过他们了 No, I did. I did. I told 'em the whole thing.
但他们毕竟是... 老年人嘛 But, you know, they're... old.
所以 So...
对了 你打算... Anyway, are you...
我们到底是怎么个订婚法 What are we doing?
我们算是以非传统的方式订婚 We are doing a nontraditional engagement,
女方先怀孕 where the woman gets pregnant first
然后男方受到全球疫情影响 and then the man moves in with her
搬过来同居 because of a global pandemic.
对 现在是... That's right. Now it's...
现在我记得了 他们居然会 Now I remember. You know, they really got to start
给我们这样的人做订婚纪念贺卡 你知道吗 making Hallmark cards for people like us. You know?
你可以接受我们现在这样的关系吗 A-And you're-you're good with... with where we are?
可以 Yeah.
你呢 You?
可以 yeah.
当然 Yes.
别担心 这些吃的是无麸质低热量的 Don't worry. These are gluten-free and low-cal.
-但不穿上衣不给吃 -这就穿 - But no shirt, no service. - I'm on it.
什么事啊 What's going on here?
怎么了 What?
我好像拿到那个角色了 I think I just got the part.
我是说 如果跟导演的会面进展顺利的话 I mean, pending a-a good meeting with the director,
我就拿到这个角色了 I-I got the part.
-那部律政片吗 演有玻璃假眼的律师 -对 - The legal movie? The lawyer with the glass eye? - Yeah.
嗯 不对 不是 Yeah, yeah. No, it's not--
电影名字叫《玻璃眼》没错 The-the title of the movie is Glass Eye.
但角色跟我本人一样都是肉眼 是由... He's got two eyes just like mine, made out of...
我也不知道 I don't know
肉眼是由什么构成的 what eyes are made out of.
-不过恭喜 -这真是... 谢谢 - But congratulations. - This is-- Thank you.
这太好了 Yeah, this is great.
不过从现在开始 Although I probably should stick to, like
我可能要坚持只摄入鸡胸肉和水了 just straight-up lean chicken breast and water from here on out.
电影里有几个镜头 I got to have my shirt off in the movie
我要脱掉上衣 演亲热戏 for a couple of scenes, love scenes.
因此我得闷头练成高斯林 So I'm going straight-up Gosling for this
或者《搏击俱乐部》里的皮特那种形象 or Pitt in Fight Club or something.
我也说不好 总之不能... I don't know. I'm not...
是我的经纪人 抱歉 我得接这个电话 This is my agent. Sorry, I have to take this.
抱歉让你辛苦做了这些 I'm sorry about this.
我给你做晚饭 好吧 我来做晚饭 I'm-I'm gonna cook you dinner, okay? I'll make dinner?
好吗 Okay?
我紧张 我紧张 I'm nervous. I'm nervous.
我也紧张 Yeah, I'm nervous, too.
但我既紧张又兴奋 But I'm nervous and I'm excited.
-这叫什么 紧奋吗 -嗯 - What is that, like, nerve-cited? - Yeah.
记住 我们只是有可能会领养这个人的孩子 Remember, we're just meeting a potential birth mother.
-对 -好吧 我们要了解一下她 - Right. - All right? We're gonna get to know her.
她也要了解一下我们 She's gonna get to know us.
不要太抱有期待 对吧 No expectations. Right?
现在 我们要找的是艾莉和她女儿 Now, am I looking for her and her daughter
还是只有艾莉 or just Ellie?
只有艾莉 No, just Ellie.
别人替她照顾女儿 Someone's watching her daughter.
对了 那孩子叫薇勒 Whose name is Willow, by the way.
她八岁了 我就提个醒 And she's eight years old, just as a reminder.
亲爱的 Babe.
我的天 Oh, my gosh.
我应该戴哪一个口罩 Which mask should I wear?
-你带了不止一个吗 -对 - You brought options? - Yes.
这个 This one.
还有 And...
有花的那个 Flowers.
-什么 -肯定选有花的那个 - What? - Definitely the flowers.
-真的吗 -对 - Really? - Yeah.
我以为你会喜欢这个 I thought you would love this one.
我喜欢 但气氛不对 I love it. Wrong vibe.
好吧 好吧 Okay. All right.
好了 亲我 Okay, kiss me.
好 好了 Okay. All right.
好了 Okay...
天啊 小托 我真的很想这事能成 Gosh, Tobe, I want this so bad.
我知道 我知道 I know. I know.
我们在圣皮德罗还是圣佩德罗 Now, are we in San Pee-dro or San Pay-dro?
我不想让自己看起来像个土包子 I-I don't want to come off looking like a rube.
-我想应该是佩德罗吧 -佩德罗 - I think it's Pay-dro. - Pay-dro.
-佩德罗 圣佩德罗 -佩德罗 对 - Pay-dro. San Pay-dro. - Pay-dro. Yeah.
-圣佩德罗 -是凯特和托比吗 - San Pay-dro. - Kate and Toby?
-你好 -你好 -Hi. - Hi!
-我是艾莉 -你好 - Hi, I'm-I'm Ellie. - Hi!
你们好 Hi.
很高兴见到你 How nice to meet you.
是啊 欢迎来到圣皮德罗 Yeah. Welcome to San Pee-dro.
是皮德罗啊 我去 Pee-dro. Damn it.
好了 OK.
这个口罩太棒了 That is an amazing mask.
斯图尔特选你的小组是有原因的 凯特 Stewart chose to be in your project for a reason, Kate.
他显然还喜欢你 He clearly still likes you.
你这么觉得吗 You think so?
我拿了些零食来 没有养生食品 I have got snacks. Nothing healthy.
只有好吃的 Only the fun stuff,
-包括洋葱玉米圈 -妈妈 - including Funyuns. - Mom.
百吉小饼 Bagel Bites.
斯图尔特喜欢吃百吉小饼 Stewart loves Bagel Bites.
我怎么会忘了 How could I forget?
谢谢 妈妈 Thanks, Mom.
嗨 兰德尔 Hi, Randall.
-嗨 -我们在造一个沙漠生物群落模型 - Hey. - We're building a desert biome.
想看看吗 Want to see?
不了 我三年级就做过了 No, I made that in third grade.
我来开 Got it!
我带了培植仙人掌的黏土和水族馆的沙子 Hi. I brought Play-Doh for the cacti and aquarium sand
-来做沙漠地面 -太好了 进来吧 - for the desert floor. - Great. Come on in.
顺便说一句 我很喜欢你的口罩 By the way, I love your mask.
我们一家来自匹兹堡 my family's from Pittsburgh.
我们是忠实的钢人队球迷 We are diehard Steelers fans.
我知道 我在你的个人资料里看到了 I know. I saw it in your profile.
我戴它以示敬意 I wore it as an homage.
我爸爸来自约翰斯顿 My dad is from Johnstown.
-真的吗 -是的 - Really? - Yeah.
你可别告诉我 But don't tell me
你会给女儿起名薇勒是因为... that you actually named your daughter Willow after...
薇勒·罗森伯格 没错 Willow Rosenberg. Yes.
-不可能 -是的 我是个超级巴菲迷 - No way. - Yes. Oh, I'm a huge Buffy fan.
-超级 真的 -什么 - Huge. Yes. - What?
好了 Okay. All right.
我们能收养你吗 So can we adopt you?
我们能吗 小托 我们能 Can we, Tobe? Can we...?
-你觉得呢 -我没问题 - You know? - I'm free.
太疯狂了吗 好吧 太疯狂了 Is that crazy? Okay, it's crazy. All right...
不 没有 我只是觉得我们好像 No, it's not, I just think we might have
偏离了话题 strayed from the topic here.
是的 对不起 抱歉 Yes, sorry, sorry.
太开心了 Having too much fun, okay.
好了 Okay, so...
为什么我要把这个孩子送给别人养 why am I placing this child for adoption?
我嫁给了我的高中恋人 I married my high school sweetheart,
也就是薇勒的父亲 他得癌症去世了 Willow's father, and I lost him to cancer.
那是一段 And it was...
沉痛的经历 我不想再沉浸其中了 awful beyond awful, so I don't want to dwell on it,
我光是重拾对别的男人的兴趣 except to say that it took me a few years
就花了好几年 更别说约会了 to even think about another man, let alone go out with one,
期间我一直独自抚养我女儿 in the middle of raising my daughter by myself.
几乎我所有的女性朋友 But all of my girlfriends
都说我该重返情场了 said that it was time for me to get back out there.
所以我尝试了婚恋交友网站 So I went on Match,
遇到了一个帅气的陌生人 and I met up with this handsome stranger
我们喝了酒 and there were drinks,
很多酒 然后我才知道他的名字五小时 a lot of drinks, and I ended up in his bed
就跟他上了床 about five hours after learning his name.
你们一定觉得我一团糟 You must think I'm so messed up.
完全没有 Not at all.
相信我 我认真考虑过了 Trust me, I have thought about this.
这件事情我考虑得 I have thought about this more than I have ever thought
比这辈子任何其他事都要认真 about anything else in my whole life.
这个宝宝在别处长大会更好 And... this baby will do better if she is raised elsewhere.
在真的想要她的父母跟前 With parents who... really want her.
这样我也会觉得我做了正确的选择 And it'll make me feel like I'm doing something right.
我很抱歉 是我朋友打来的 I am so sorry. That is my friend.
她今天在照看薇勒 稍等下 抱歉 She's watching Willow today, so just one sec. Sorry.
"每当附近有奇怪的事发生" "When there's something strange in the neighborhood."
《捉鬼敢死队》插曲歌词
-她拿《捉鬼敢死队》的曲子当铃声 -是啊 - She has "Ghostbusters." What? - I know.
就好像她提前人肉了 It's like... it's like she's combed
我们的社交媒体之类的 through our social media or something.
这证明她对流行文化有着独特的品味 It's validating that she has exquisite taste in pop culture,
-但我们应该谨慎行事 -我很抱歉 - but we should exercise caution. - I am so sorry.
-没关系 -我的孩子在哭闹 - No, it's okay. - My child is having a meltdown,
所以我得比我预想的时间 so, uh, I may have to wind this up
-提前一点结束 -好可惜 - just a little sooner than I wanted. - Oh, no.
我得叫一辆十五分钟内到这的网约车 Like, got to call a Lyft in, like, 15.
-好吧... -我们可以送你 - All right, well... - I mean, we could take you,
-如果你愿意 对吧小托 -真的不用 -if you want, right, Tobe? -Oh, no, you don't need to do that.
没关系 No, it's fine. Like...
好吧 那好 Okay, all right, then. Well,
-能给我们更多时间相处 -我们走吧 - that buys us more time. - Let's roll.
自从我们谈过后 情况如何 So, how have things been since we spoke?
很好 谢谢 All good, thanks.
我喜欢你身后的那幅画 I, uh... I like that painting behind you.
别告诉我作者 是卡迪尔·尼尔森吗 Don't tell me. Uh, Kadir Nelson?
是的 你收藏他的画吗 Yes. You collect him?
不 well, no.
我以前看过他的画 I mean, I've seen his stuff before.
是我妻子让我喜欢上了他 My wife's the one who turned me on to him.
她是他的超级粉丝 She's a big fan.
她的名字叫贝丝 我妻子 Beth's her name-- my wife.
她是黑人 跟你说一声 我妻子是位黑人女性 She's Black. Just so you know, I'm married to a Black woman,
所以 so, you know...
兰德尔 你完全不需要 Randall, you know you have absolutely nothing
向我证明任何事 好吗 to prove to me, right?
我有点紧张 I'm a little nervous.
我知道 今早我已经告诉过你 I know. I told you this morning
我为什么找你做心理咨询了 我... what brought me here, and I just...
这对我来说很重要 This is important to me.
-我想认真对待这件事 -明白 - I want to do this right. - I hear you.
但这需要时间 But this is a process.
而且要记住 And keep in mind,
除了我们线上的交谈 还需要额外的努力 not all the work is done here in this room.
你看起来就像是喜欢家庭作业的人 所以 You seem like a guy who likes homework, so,
下面是给你第一个任务 here's your first assignment.
今晚 我需要你写一个 Tonight, I want you to write down a story
你的童年故事 一个就行 from your childhood-- just one story.
写一些你觉得可以让我了解你的事 Something that you think might tell me something about you.
拿个笔记本 不管想到什么记下就行 grab a notebook and keep it handy when it comes to you.
任何你想让我了解的事都行 Just something you'd like me to know.
好的 Okay.
抱歉 我来把这个关了 Sorry. Let me shut this down.
贝丝 做完心理咨询打给我 是苔丝的事 她没事 不过她的校长给我打电话了
好了 时间都交给你了 All right, I'm all yours.
你之前可能从来没听说过这个导演 Yeah, you've probably never heard of the director before.
他叫乔丹·马丁·福斯特 His name is Jordan Martin Foster.
他在戛纳拿过评审团奖 He won the Jury Prize at Cannes.
你还好吧 Are you okay?
嗯 没事 Yeah, fine.
告诉你一下 亲热戏拍起来一点也不性感 Just so you know: sex scenes couldn't be less sexy.
你明白吗 我没在开玩笑 Okay? And I'm not even kidding.
你想想 那么工作人员 I mean, you got crew members
站的到处都是 standing around all over the place.
另外 加上新冠疫情 我甚至都不知道 Plus, with COVID now, I don't even know
我们是否会在同一个摄影棚录制 if we'll be in the same studio.
我只知道 我会在伯班克的某个地方拍 For all I know, I'll be in Burbank somewhere,
她会在卡尔弗市 然后他们会 she'll be in Culver City, and they'll just
后期把我们剪到一起 throw us together in post.
你没什么好担心的 You got nothing to worry about.
我没有担心这件事 我们回去吧 I'm not worried about it. Let's go back.
-我脚疼 -对不起 抱歉 - My feet hurt. - I'm sorry. Excuse me.
非常抱歉 我只想告诉你 我是你的铁粉 I'm so sorry. I just wanted to say I am a big fan.
-谢谢 -我叫朱莉娅 - thank you. - Julia.
能来张合影吗 Could I get a picture?
好啊 Okay.
恭喜啊 Wow. Congratulations.
你离预产期还有几周 How many weeks do you have to go?
-就剩几个月了吧 -你可真走运 - just a few months. - Oh, lucky girl.
你这圆滚滚的小肚子形状真好 You just have the cute little basketball belly.
我儿子都一岁了 我还在努力减掉赘肉 Me? My son's a year old, I'm still running it off.
我们来一张保持社交距离的自拍吧 let's get that socially-distanced selfie, right?
-谢谢 -不客气 - Thank you. - You're welcome.
好了 拍好了 There you go. All right.
-谢谢 -拍得很好 谢谢 - Thanks. - It's a good one. Thank you.
麦迪逊 Madison! Hey, hey.
麦迪逊 听我解释 如果你是生我的气 Madison? Listen, if you're upset with me...
-我没有 -好吧 如果你亲热戏有意见 - I'm not. - Okay, listen, you can come
你可以到时候去拍戏的地方 to the filming of the love scene if that's really
-亲自看看 -我没有因为亲热戏生气 - what's bothering you. - I am not upset about the love scene.
但你看起来就是在为亲热戏生气 It seems like you're upset about the love scene.
我没有为亲热戏生气 I'm not upset about the love scene!
我是在为煎饼的事生气 I'm upset about the pancakes.
我气是因为她都能看出来我怀孕了 I'm upset that she can tell I'm pregnant.
我气的是有一大堆事我想说 Okay, I'm-I'm upset about a whole bunch of stuff
但没有办法坦然说给你听 I'm not comfortable sharing with you
因为我们基本上就是陌生人 because we're basically strangers.
别跟着我 Don't follow me.
我也得往回走啊 I'm walking back to the house.
那你换条路走 Go a different way.
抱歉 能再拍一张吗 我刚刚眨眼了 I'm so sorry. Could I get another? I-I blinked.
什么 What?
油烧开了 The oil's boiling.
用越南语再说一遍
你说过 我们只有在钓鱼的时候 You said we only have to speak Vietnamese
才需要说越南语 when we are fishing.
不管说什么语言 You always get the last word
你总是有理 in every language.
做每件事都要很长时间 Everything takes so long.
钓鱼 煮鱼 Fishing the fish, cooking the fish.
我们来打钓鱼纸牌吧 Let's play Go Fish.
你需要学会有耐心 玲 You need to learn patience, Linh.
做饭是向别人表达爱的一种方式 Preparing a meal is the way to show someone you love them.
我学做饭 I learned to cook
是因为我想给某个特殊的人留下美好的印象 because I want to impress someone very special to me.
谁 Who?
个子这么小 问题却不少 So many questions in such a little body.
坐好 Sit.
我不会告诉你我是在为谁做饭 I will not tell you who I cook for,
但我会让你看看 我是怎么为她做饭的 but I will show you how I cook for her.
她 是个女人 Her! It's a girl.
坐好 Sit.
你在做什么 Hey, what you doing?
再挺直一点 Just straightening up a bit.
好吧 我们这里 Yeah, well, we don't go in
可不喜欢那种东西 for that sort of stuff around here.
所以 你没找到什么东西吧 So, you, uh, didn't find anything, did you?
-比如 -没什么 - Such as? - Nothing. I mean,
-我把英奇的球弄丢了 -英奇 - I just lost Inky's ball. - Inky?
我很喜欢看《贝福地先生》 I love Mr. Belvedere.
虽然我更喜欢《成长没烦恼》 Although I'm more of a Who's the Boss? girl.
我猜你就是那种聪明到不需要做作业的人 I bet you're the brainiac that doesn't need to do homework.
你就整天看电视 然后考试全A You just watch TV all day and get all As.
我每天都有安排 I have a routine.
吃零食 看《贝福地先生》 然后写作业 Snack, watch Mr. Bel, and then do my homework.
看电视正是安排的一部分 I'm in the middle of my routine right now.
各位 Hey, everybody.
橄榄球赛怎么样 How was football?
-还行 -还行吗 - Fine. -Fine?
教练说我们家这位是未来的特里·布拉德肖 Coach said we've got another Terry Bradshaw right here.
当然我肯定不会变秃 Minus the hair loss.
- 当然了 -肯定的 凯文 - Yeah, of course. - Obviously, Kevin.
知道教练还说了什么吗 Hey, you know what else Coach said?
凯文再壮一点 就能当主力 Kev gets a little stronger, he's gonna be a force.
所以我打算带他去车库 做点重量训练 So I'm gonna take him out in the garage, pump a little iron.
车库啊 那可是你爸的圣地 The garage. Dad's sanctuary.
-好的 -上楼换件衣服 - Okay. - Go upstairs and change, all right?
这是在干什么呢 What's going on here?
学习小组 Study group.
真的在学习吗 Studying what?
放松点 人家都好好的 杰克 Relax. They're fine, Jack.
真的吗 你不打算介入吗 Really? You're not gonna meddle?
绝对不介入 那是七年级的丽贝卡才会做的事 No, no, no, no. Meddling was so Seventh Grade Rebecca.
现在我可是八年级的丽贝卡 This is Eighth Grade Rebecca.
帅气妈妈丽贝卡 Cool Mom Rebecca.
我可以掌控局势 不过是以帅气的方式 You know, I can monitor the situation, but in a cool way.
-好的 帅气妈妈 -帅气妈妈 - Okay. Yeah, Cool Mom. - Cool Mom.
帅气妈妈 Cool Mom.
-宝贝 -嗯 - Hey, babe. - Yeah.
你真觉得小凯做重量训练没问题吗 You really think it's okay for Kev to be pumping iron?
毕竟青少年的骨骼和肌肉还在发育 I mean, teens' bones and muscles are still developing.
想说什么就直说吧 Say the thing you want to say.
没什么 帅气妈妈丽贝卡不会随便干涉 No. Cool Mom Rebecca doesn't meddle.
放心 交给我吧 Okay. I-I got this.
是啊 挺可爱的 Yeah, it's really cute.
他有自己创造的语言 He, like, has his own little made-up language.
他说的话都是押韵的 And everything rhymes.
特别可爱 小托 It's really cute. Oh, hey, Tobe,
保姆说她找不到尿布 the sitter said that she can't find any diapers.
有尿布 你昨天买了啊 Yeah, well, you bought some yesterday.
-是啊 我买了 -所以尿布在哪里 - Yeah. Yeah, I did. - Well, where are they?
我哪知道 买完之后是你拿进家的 I don't know. You brought the groceries in.
好吧 Okay.
拜托 小托 Come on, Tobe.
不是说好出发之前你负责检查尿布存量吗 You were supposed to check the diaper supply before we left.
对 我昨天检查了尿布存量 No, I checked the diaper supply yesterday
看到快用完了 and saw that we were low
就在购物清单上写了"尿布" and wrote "Diapers" on the shopping list.
没错 然后我买了购物清单上的尿布 Right, and then I bought the diapers that were on the shopping list,
而你应该把尿布从车上拿下去的 and you were supposed to take them out of the trunk.
如果我们一次性多买点的话 We wouldn't run out of diapers so fast
尿布就不会那么快用完了 if we could please just buy in bulk.
我可不想囤尿布 小托 I'm not gonna hoard diapers, Tobe.
其他人也需要尿布 Like, other people need diapers, too.
我不是说要把全世界的尿布都买回来 I'm not talking about buying all of the diapers in the world,
但这孩子就是个人型厕所 but this kid is a human outhouse.
或许我们可以多买一两箱 Maybe if we just get, like, an extra box or two.
行吧 所以这是我的错吗 Okay, so it's my fault?
能不能有一次 It would be really great, just, like,
你能主动说"是我的错" one time if you could be like, "My fault,"
来承担一下过错 like you took the blame just for something.
比如这样"嘿 这事怪我" Just like, "Hey, it was me."
我经常承担过错啊 I take the blame for everything.
我就是这个家的过错皮纳塔 砰的砸开 I am this family's blame piñata! Pow!
派对用的装有糖果和彩带的容器 类似于金蛋 砸开后象征好运
过错就会散落一地 Blame scattered on the floor.
过错皮纳塔 Blame piñata.
这比喻不错 That's good.
谢谢 我说出来的时候也感觉很好 Thanks, it felt good rolling off the tongue.
对不起 我把尿布落在车里了 I'm sorry I left the diapers in the trunk.
-我就是个傻瓜 -宝贝 你不是傻瓜 - I'm an idiot. - Babe, you're not an idiot.
而且我们都知道 我们以前也有过 And we both know that, uh, we've had our son
让儿子在脏尿布里坐着的时候 甚至比这次还久... sit in his diaper for a lot longer than this, so...
是啊 其实我觉得他还挺喜欢的 Yeah, I actually think he likes it.
因为他是个脏宝宝 'Cause he's gross.
-准备走吗 -好 - Ready? - Yes.
菲利普斯老师 叫我要说"他们" 不是"她" Hey, Mr. Phillips, I'm a they, not a she.
告诉过你17次了 Told you about 17 times now,
所以如果你有意见的话 那就去死吧 so if you've got a problem with that, then screw you!
詹宁斯老师 我们回学校以后 Hey, Ms. Jennings. When we get back to school,
你别再碰我的头发了 don't touch my hair anymore.
就像索兰格唱的 别碰老娘的头发 Like Solange says, don't touch my hair.
索兰格·诺尔斯 黑人女歌手
这让你们不安了吗 Does this make you uneasy?
这让你们不舒服了吗 Does this make you uncomfortable?
你们经常给我们这种感觉 Because that's how you make us feel.
-去死吧 -去死吧 - Screw you! - Screw you!
在我们开始前 你有什么想说的吗 There anything you want to say before we do?
这是我们去年拍的 当时詹宁斯老师摸我头发 We did it last year after Ms. Jennings touched my hair,
还继续摸其他同学头发 then kept doing it to other kids.
苔丝 如果有老师摸你头发 Tess, if a teacher touched your hair,
你应该直接去找那个老师 you know what, you should have gone to that teacher,
或者来找我们 or you should have come to us.
你不该在网上 You do not post
发这种侮辱 嘲讽的舞蹈视频 a profane, mocking dance video
昭告全世界 for the world to see.
我跟老师说过了 I did tell the teacher.
我说"请不要摸我头发" I said, "Please don't touch my hair."
那她听了吗 And did she stop?
她是不摸我头发了 She stopped with me.
但她还是会摸其他黑人同学的头发 But not with all the other Black students.
苔丝 其他同学不关你的事 Well, Tess, the other students aren't your problem.
面对不公时保持沉默 Silence in the face of injustice
便是与压迫者同谋 is complicity with the oppressor.
当我们好言请求时 老师们听不懂 Okay, the teachers didn't get the message when we asked nicely,
他们现在绝对听明白了 but they definitely got the message now.
注意你的态度 好吗 苔丝 Check the attitude, okay, Tess?
这个亚历克斯 是她让你干的吗 Now, this Alex, did she make you do this?
亚历克斯不是"她" 是"他们" Alex is not a she. They're a they.
好吧 他们 Fine. They.
没人让我做任何事 No one made me do anything.
你们让我做自己 You tell me to be myself.
我现在就是在做自己 Well, this is me now, guys.
你们看到这世上发生了什么吗 Have you seen what's going on in the world?
我不想再等着某一天发现自我 I'm done waiting to figure out who I am.
我受够了当一个谨言慎行 默不作声的小女孩 I'm done being the prissy, quiet little girl
一个成长在白人异性恋郊区的 you raised in the straight, white suburbs
被白人异性恋包围着的小女孩 surrounded by straight, white people.
这就是我想成为的人 This is who I want to be.
这就是我 This is who I am.
回你的房间去 苔丝 Go to your room, Tess.
这个要放在这里 This'll go right here.
斯图尔特 我们可以不用掩饰 Stewart, we can stop pretending
你选择我的学习小组的真正原因 why you picked my study group.
我也想你 I miss you, too.
我选你们组是因为我喜欢沙漠 I picked your group because I like deserts.
沙漠多刺激 This is where the action is.
有蛇 美国毒蜥 Snakes, Gila monsters,
蝎子 scorpions.
真神奇 这味道和根汁汽水一样 It's crazy. This tastes just like root beer.
你想试试吗 Want to try?
我得去做作业了 I should really get to my homework.
这杯倒得够豪放 That's an angry pour.
谢谢 Grazie.
那是什么 What's that?
给万斯医生写的日记 It's a journal for Dr. Vance.
他让我写一个童年的故事 Supposed to write down a story about my childhood.
不敢想苔丝以后会怎么写我们 Can only imagine what Tess is gonna write about us someday.
她只是在发泄 She's lashing out.
她不该这么冲动 She should know better.
发到网上的东西会留存很久 The Internet has a long memory.
我们教过她不要冲动 兰德尔 We taught her to know better, Randall.
嗯 对 我们是这么教的 Yeah. Yeah, we did.
作为父母 我同意你 As a parent, I agree with you.
她处理这事的方法不妥 She did not go about this the right way,
不过 私底下说... but-- and just stay with me here...
我心里多少有点为她感到骄傲 part of me is kind of proud of her.
我像她那么大时 如果有烦恼 If something bothered me when I was her age,
我只会闷在心里 I swallowed it.
我一直担心苔丝会像我一样 I've always been worried that Tess was like me.
内向 焦虑 You know, internal. Anxious.
但突然 But all of a sudden,
她找到了自己的风格 she's coming into her own.
她勇于面对真实的自己 She's not afraid of who she is.
她不必等到40岁去看心理咨询师 She's not gonna have to go see a therapist at 40
才能找到自己 to figure that out.
我知道 也懂你的意思 I know. And I hear you.
但她们现在只是青少年 老公 But they are teenagers now, husband.
好吗 Okay?
教育她们是我们的职责 This is what we have been training for.
她的所作所为必须得到后果 There has got to be consequences for what she's done.
好吗 All right?
而良好的家庭教育不是唱红脸和唱白脸 And strong parenting is not playing good cop, bad cop.
我们得达成共识 We have to be on the same page.
从现在开始 Starting now.
所以你想让我去跟她聊聊吗 So you want me to go talk to her?
答案正确 Ding, ding, ding.
-不 拉一次就行 -对 不 稍等 - No, just pull it once. - Maybe. No. Hold on.
-对 拉一次就行 -抱歉 - Just pull it once. Yeah. - I'm sorry.
好了 There you go.
谢谢你们送我过来 聊得很开心 Thank you for the ride. This was fun.
确实 没错 Oh, I-I-it was. Yeah.
如果我们的争吵让你感到尴尬 我很抱歉 and I'm sorry if our arguing made you feel uncomfortable.
其实 我们平时相处得很好 所以... I mean, we actually get along very well, so...
对 而且进展很顺利 因为我们结婚了 Yeah, which works out good, 'cause we're married.
道格 我丈夫 Well, Doug-- my husband--
他以前特别爱囤调料 he used to overbuy condiments.
仿佛他一直活在担心 It was as if he lived in perpetual fear
用光芥末的恐慌之中 of running out of mustard.
简直把我逼疯了 It drove me nuts,
我们也一直为这事吵架 and we fought about it constantly.
芥末门 番茄酱门 蛋黄酱门 Mustard-gate. Ketchup-gate. Mayo-gate.
蛋黄酱门是...最糟的一次 Mayo-gate was, uh, it was especially bad.
我觉得观察一对夫妻怎么吵架 I think you can tell a lot about a couple
能了解很多信息 by how they fight.
还有他们怎么和好 How they recover.
我觉得跟你们很有缘 I have a strong feeling about you guys.
谢谢你们远路赶来圣皮德罗 Thanks for coming all the way to San Pedro.
-没事 -不客气 这是我们的荣幸 - Yeah. - Oh, of course. Our pleasure.
嗯 我爱圣皮德罗 Yeah, love San Pedro.
"我们都爱圣皮德罗" "We love San Pedro."
好的 拜拜 Okay, bye.
再见 See you.
拜拜 Bye.
你感觉如何 Hey. How you feeling?
还好 我的脚湿透了 Fine. Soaked my feet.
好吧 好的 Oh, good. Good.
-其实 我不是故意... -别说了 - So, I-I didn't mean to, uh... - Don't.
你什么都没做错 You did nothing wrong.
我肯定说了什么 我不... I said something. I don't...
是关于电影还是宝宝的 Was it about the movie or the babies? Uh...
我有进食障碍 凯文 I had an eating disorder, Kevin.
我不确定你知道多少 I'm not sure how much you know,
但我记不清自己已经 but I've been struggling with eating issues
为吃饭问题挣扎多久了 然后... for as long as I can remember, and, um...
我怀孕了 then comes this pregnancy.
你知道我为什么把B超照片贴在冰箱 You know why that ultrasound picture is on the fridge
而不是布告板或浴室的镜子上吗 and not on a bulletin board or a bathroom mirror?
我把它贴在那里 I keep that there
是为了提醒自己进食 to remind me to eat.
提醒我吃东西 小凯 To eat food, Kev.
为了我们宝宝的健康而吃饭 To eat food to keep our babies healthy.
你知道每当我去看医生 Do you know when I go to the doctor,
他们做的第一件事就是给我称体重 the first thing they do is weigh me?
然后会大声报出数字 And they announce the number out loud,
而我得提醒自己 and I have to remind myself
要因为长了两磅而表现得骄傲 to act proud that I've put on two pounds
而我成年后大部分时刻 when for most of my adult life,
那种消息只会让我陷入崩溃 news like that would just make me spiral.
这很难调整 It's hard to adjust.
我不知道 I didn't know.
你当然不知道 Of course you didn't.
我在你面前隐藏了很大一部分自我 I've been hiding a lot of myself from you.
这整件事根本不正常 小凯 This whole thing isn't normal, Kev,
我们装得再好也没用 as much as we pretend it is.
我们之间的一切 顺序都是反的 Everything came backwards here,
我的状态也一片混乱 and I'm all over the place.
我心里充满了不安 Insecurities running wild,
而你却一直像个 and-and you're walking around
奥运游泳选手那样走来走去 like an Olympic swimmer most of the time.
我很抱歉 I'm sorry.
我没事 I'm fine.
我爱我们的宝宝 I love our babies.
我只是还有很多事要消化 I'm just dealing with a lot right now.
是我的问题 It's on me.
好了 All right.
准备好了吗 You ready?
我是汉斯 I am Hans.
我是弗兰兹 And I am Franz.
我们一起 加把劲变型男 And we want to pump you up!
好嘞 我们... Okay. Let's, uh...
我们先只用杆试试吧 You know, let's start with just the bar.
因为你还在长身体 'Cause, you know, you're still developing and everything.
别这样 上点重量吧 Come on, man, throw in some lead.
不 小凯 别急 No, Kev, come on.
杠铃杆也很重的 好吗 不过现在 The bar is-is plenty heavy. All right? But first,
你必须要先热热身 what I want you to do is, you got to warm up.
明白吗 得先放松下来 Right? We got to loosen things up.
把手臂拉伸开来 活动活动肩膀 Pull your arm through. Warm your shoulders up.
没错 换一边 就是这样 There you go. Yeah. Go the other arm. All right.
压过来 再压过去 Go across. Go across.
好了 咱们开练 All right, here we go.
掰响指关节这步你随意 Knuckle popping is optional.
来吧 All right.
斯图尔特只是喜欢沙漠而已 妈 Stewart's a desert groupie, Mom.
所以他才想加入我们的作业小组 That's why he wanted to be in our study project.
他不是想跟我一组 It wasn't to be with me.
是这样啊 I see.
我觉得自己好傻 I feel like an idiot.
别这样想 No, don't.
勇于追随内心是很了不起的事 凯特 Following your heart is a real strength, Kate.
当然 有时你会因此受伤 Yeah, sometimes you end up getting hurt,
但多数情况下 but most of the time,
最终都会顺利的 it'll all work out.
我知道接下来的话不够帅气 I know it's not the cool thing to say,
但我真的很为你骄傲 but I'm really proud of you,
我爱你 and I love you.
好了 纸尿裤应急库存补给完毕 All right. Emergency diaper stash restocked.
什么事这么好笑 What's so funny?
艾莉说《捉鬼猎人巴菲》的《请安静》那集重播了 Oh, uh, Ellie said the Buffy episode "Hush" was on, so...
你不知道《请安静》吗 Babe, "Hush"?
就是太阳谷所有人都 The one where everyone in Sunnydale
说不了话的那集 loses the ability to talk?
别侮辱我的记忆力 我知道那集 Do not insult me. I know the episode.
-请别这样 -抱歉 - Please. - Excuse me.
但我们能不能 But c-could we just not
-别老给她发消息 -是她先发给我的 - text her as much, please? -She texted me.
拜托 你就承认一切顺利不好吗 Come on. Just admit, it went well.
你能不能表现得稍微 And could you just be a little excited
-兴奋一点 -不太能 - about that? - Not really.
领养宝宝比自己生养还难 This baby stuff wasn't that easy the first time.
这一次 我们面对的 You know, with this, we're dealing
是一位33岁的单亲妈妈 with a 33-year-old single mother
她真有可能随时对我们变卦 who could, literally, at any moment, change her mind about us.
所以与其让我表现得更兴奋 So instead of asking me to be more excited,
要不你表现得稍微紧张一点 好不好 could maybe you... you try to be a little more terrified?
好吧 Okay.
她摸肚子时真的总是面带笑容 You know what, she does smile a lot when she rubs her belly.
当然 这肯定比一脸愁容好 Which is better than the opposite, obviously,
我也不清楚 反正我注意到了 but I don't know, I clocked it.
-亲爱的 -对吧 谢谢你 - Oh, babe. - See? Thank you.
谢谢 你这样我反而宽心一点了 Thank-- no, that makes me feel better.
谢谢你表现出了一点无伤大雅的慌张 Thank you for registering an acceptable level of terror.
我很感激 I appreciate it.
行吧 不客气 Yeah, okay, you're welcome.
她倒是说过她最喜欢的《星球大战》角色 She did say that her favorite Star Wars character
是巴布·弗里克 was Babu Frik.
这倒是新鲜 我很欣赏 That's a fresh take. Respect.
我们发现纸尿裤忘在车里的时候 And did you see the look on her face when she noticed
你注意到她的表情了吗 that we had forgotten the diapers in the car?
她得爱惨了我们才能有那副表情 That was the look of a woman who is falling hard for us.
-宝贝 -是 这的确是好事 - Babe. - Yeah. Those are good things.
-的确是好事 -我也谢谢你 - Those are good things. - Okay, well, thank you
表现出一点无伤大雅的兴奋 for registering a, you know, an acceptable level of excitement.
谢谢你 Thank you.
还有 郑重声明 我是买了尿布的 Also, I, um, bought the diapers, for the record.
只是你把它们忘在后备箱里了 You left 'em in the trunk.
不好意思 Uh, excuse me.
"请进" "Come in."
"谢谢闺女 可别怪老爸打扰你哦" "Oh, thanks, daughter, don't-don't mind if I do."
面对不公时保持沉默 "Silence in the face of inequality
便是与压迫者同谋 is complicity with the oppressor."
-吉内塔·萨根的名言 -你注意到了 - Ginetta Sagan. - You caught that.
没有什么能逃过我的法眼 闺女 I catch everything, daughter.
在表达自己的观点时 There's a right way and a wrong way
方法是分对错的 to get your point across.
哪怕大声点都没关系 Even loudly, if need be.
但你的方法错了 And this was the wrong way.
这也不是你的风格 And it's not you.
在网上跟大人说去死吧 Telling adults to screw themself on the Internet?
-这不是你 -这就是我 - That's not you. - It is me.
不是的 It's not.
这不是那个让我的生活翻天覆地的人 That is not the person who made my life somersault.
-这是以前我们说过的 -我记得 - It's an old reference. - I remember.
接下来六周 我们要没收你的手机 We're taking your phone away for six weeks.
什么 我要是出门怎么办 What? What if I'm out?
不会的 因为你还将被禁足六周 You won't be, 'cause you're grounded for six weeks, too.
你个法西斯 这也太扯... Fascist! This is bull...
你要是把这句话说完 就再加三周 You finish that sentence, tack on three more weeks.
明智之举 Good choice.
天啊 God.
她刚才骂你法西斯了吗 Did she call you a fascist?
没错 亲爱的 是这么叫的 Yeah, hon. I believe she did.
你需要把拇指勾起来 懂吗 What you want to do is, you line your thumbs up, okay?
一定要稳稳握住横杠的中间 Make sure that bar is nice and center.
勾紧横杠 非常重要 Wrap them around the bar. Very important.
拇指绕住横杠 很重要 Thumb around the bar. Important.
来 Come on.
继续 Come on.
加油 Come on.
很好 小凯 你做得非常好 Nice, Kev. You're doing great.
最后一个 小凯 最后一个 加油 Last one, Kev. Last one. Here we go.
使劲 使劲 使劲 Push it, push it, push it.
推上来 Push it.
胸部发力 Work that chest.
推起来 推 Push. Push.
推起来 推推推 Push. Push, push, push, push,
推上来 好极了 push, push, push. Yeah, hey.
-很好 把杠铃放上来吧 -不 别碰 - All right, let's pull this up. - No, don't touch it.
怎么了 太沉了吗 我可以帮你减轻点重量 What's it, too heavy? I could take some weight off.
-不用了 我可以 -那就快点做 像个男人 - No, I got it. - Well, come on. Man up.
加油 小凯 你做得很好 Come on, Kev, you're good.
再来几个 A couple more.
很好 Good.
看看你 Look at you.
你真是太强了 You're a monster.
我做到了 I did it.
听着 小凯 Hey, look, Kev.
只要你下定决心 任何事情你都能搞定 You put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything.
记住了吗 Okay?
我要扮演一名出庭律师 I'm playing a trial lawyer.
在电影里 我的角色是出庭律师 In the movie I-I play a trial lawyer.
我想问你一个问题 Let me ask you a question.
为什么一个律师需要有一身肌肉 Why does a trial lawyer need to be ripped?
我不知道 I don't know.
并不需要 He doesn't.
我也会计算卡路里 麦迪逊 I count calories, too, Madison.
如果我没有 And I panic inside
每天完成两次健身 我内心会很焦虑 if I don't get a second workout in every single day.
而且我宁可在又糟又乱的车库健身 And I prefer sweating in a dingy garage
也不想去什么明星健身房因为... than going to some celebrity gym because...
天哪 原因太多一时说不过来 Oh, God, so many reasons, actually.
这里会更有力 就在这里 This one's stronger, right here.
把你的手放在那 用力... Put your hand right there. Strong...
八 九 Eight, nine,
十 ten.
换手 Switch it up.
动起来 Flex that!
举到顶 At the top.
太棒了 你做到了 Yeah, you did it!
我儿子一定会成为健身达人的 My boy's gonna be a beast.
作为一名演员 身材已经变成了我的卖点 And as an actor, it just became my currency.
实际上我之所以...能够成名... I actually... got famous...
都是靠我的身材 ...by taking my shirt off.
我岁数越来越大 保持身材也越来越难 I'm getting older and it's getting harder.
我还戒了酒 这是我另外一个瘾 And I'm not drinking anymore, which is my other addiction,
所以我会来这里 然后... so I just come in here and I just--
在这里释放所有的压力 这种行为... I channel all of that here, and it's, uh...
严格意义上来说并不健康 ...not exactly healthy.
我也有负担 麦迪逊 I got stuff, too, Madison.
我心里也有很多事 I got a lot of stuff.
比如我和我弟的关系还没有缓和 Including stuff with my brother that I still have to work out.
还有我... And I...
有的时候我躺在床上 我... I lay in bed sometimes and I, um...
我盯着天花板 然后就开始担心 ...I just stare at the ceiling and I worry.
我担心我的孩子会遗传到我 你懂吗 I worry that I'm gonna pass all that on to my kids, you know?
我的那些...不健康的缺点 All that... my unhealthy stuff.
我也是 Me, too.
其实 我认为当父母这件事本身 You know, I suppose being parents
就已经足够困难了 is gonna be hard enough on its own,
我们不需要在日常的相处中 without us walking around trying to be
互相做有礼貌的陌生人来加大难度了 polite strangers in front of each other.
我跟你说 我小时候父母是世界上最棒最恩爱的 I mean, I had the greatest, most connected parents
但他们也错过了我的很多成长 you can imagine, and they missed so much.
我之前从没说过这件事 有个叫汤雅的女孩 她会来和我妹妹学习 有一次
真神奇 这味道和根汁汽水一样 It's crazy. This tastes just like root beer.
你想试试吗 Want to try?
我得去做作业了 I should really get to my homework.
我一直很好奇跟像你这样的人 I always wondered what it would be like
接吻会是什么感觉 to kiss someone like you.
很抱歉 我之前太专注在凯特的课题上了 Sorry I was so preoccupied with Kate's project,
我甚至都没来得及问你 今天过得怎么样 I didn't even get to ask you how your day was.
-我 我挺好的 -真的吗 - It w-- it was good. - Yeah?
汤雅这孩子看着很不错 Tonya seems very nice.
是的 晚安 妈 Yeah. Night, Mom.
麦迪逊 我是个酒鬼 Madison, I'm an alcoholic
还是个有父亲情结的健身狂人 and I'm a workout addict with daddy issues.
另外 有的时候我还会长鸡眼 Also, sometimes I get foot corns,
每次夏天我长鸡眼的时候 and when that baby flares up in the summer,
哪怕去海滩我也只能穿着鞋和袜子 I've been known to wear shoes and socks at the beach.
贪食症 It's bulimia,
我的饮食障碍 my eating disorder.
十七岁的时候这病差点要了我的命 Um, it almost killed me when I was 17.
我能控制 I have a handle on it,
但即使是现在 有的时候 but even now, sometimes, my daily state of mind
我的体重还是会影响我一天的心情 is still determined by my weight.
而且 Also,
我还超爱《古战场传奇》这部剧 I am obsessed with the show Outlander.
我还去参加过粉丝集会 I've gone to conventions.
不是吧 No.
-是的 -你居然是那种狂热粉丝 - Yeah. - You're one of those people?
没错 我是那种狂热粉丝 Yeah. I'm one of those people.
我知道 I know.
写给儿子的诗 威廉·威尔
爷爷 Hey, Grandpa.
那个女人是谁 The woman?
你曾想用厨艺打动的那个女人 The one you were trying to impress with your cooking?
这里照片上的女人是不是她 Is she the woman in all the pictures around here?
个子这么小 问题倒不少 So many questions in such a little body.
玲 这些照片上的女人就是她 Linh, it's the woman in all the pictures.
我就知道 I knew it.